Bachpan se dur hote bache 💓💓

 

Bachpan se dur hote bache 💓💓

Bachpan Se Dur Hote Bache Aur Unka Bachpan. Kahani Maa, Baap Ki Hindi Mei. Mera Bachpan Ka Sangarsh. Life Lessons.

Mujhe abhi bhi yaad hai jab mere maa baap mujhe mere bachpan ke pehele school New Central admission ke liye le gei thei. Mere life ka pehela aur ek new phase suru hua tha. Wahi same process - test dena aur fir result ke baad admission hona. Test ka result aaya aur fir pata chala Mera admission ho gya hai. Papa fees department mei fees submit krne gei.

Bachpan mei kaha pata hota hai fees ka. kitna hai?, kya hai?, Papa kase fees arrange krte thei?. Ye sab Bachpan mei nhi samaj aata. Par jab dheere dheere bade hote hai. Jab hum duneya samaj ne lagte hai tab jaake samaj aata hai ki fees dena aur padai ke liye school se college tak ke safar mei bohot financial expenses hote. Agar hum manage krke na chale then bohot mushkil ho jata hai usse sambhaalna aur apne jeewan ki kahani ko ache se chalana. 

Uss wakt mera admission Nursery class mei hua tha. Hum sbse pehele cleanliness ke baare me hamesha seekhte hai aur padai se zada Masti krte hai.😂 Bachpan kitna relax bhara hota hai na? Dosto ke saath khelna.❤️❤️choti choti cheezo mei Kushi dhoond lena.

❤️ Har choti baat par hass dena.❤️ Kuch bhi krne se pehele samaaj ka darr dimaag mei na hona aur choti choti galtiya bina soche kar dena. Shayad tabhi hum mature bannte hai. Socho agar humne galti Kari he na hoti. Socho agar humne ye chote chote life ke moments enjoy he na kare hote then Kasi hoti hamari life ki kahani.

Bachpan Se Dur Hote Bache Aur Unka Bachpan. Kahani Maa, Baap Ki Hindi Mei. Mera Bachpan Ka Sangarsh. Life Lessons.

Jab bhi mei bachpan ke beparwaa bache ko abhi ke disciplined insaan se compare krta hu. Lgta hai discipline hona sahi hai par kabhi lgta hai bohot zada discipline mei hum samaaj ke dabaaw ko aur uske reaction ko bohot zada seriously le lete hai.

Papa ka daily mujhe school choor kar office Jana aur meri school par sharaarat krne par diary mei complaint likh ke aana aur papa ka mujhe daat kar diary sign krna. Ye sab soch kar kitna nostalgic aur yaadein feel hoti hai. Hamare nuclear family ki Bachpan ki life ki kahani bhi Kasi thi.

New friends - new dost/yaar banana aur bina kisi discrimination ke unse dosti kr lena. Wahi aaj ke samaaj mei jb hum bade ho jate hai then ek dost banane se pehele 100 baar sochte hai, shayad bachpan mei Hume samaj nhi hoti aur bade hote hote samaj ke saath hum swarthi bhi ho jaate hai.

Kabhi kabhi lgta hai samajh na hona he sahi tha kmse kam bina baat ke fizool ke lafare nhi hote. Sahi mei dekha jaae Bachpan se dur hote ja rahe hai bache.

Papa mummy ne socha ki apne bacho ko samaaj ke sath kadam se kadam mila ke chalne ke liye English padana aur seekhna bohot zaroori hai. Ye soch kar mere papa mummy ne mujhe KG class se English medium mei dal diya. "City Montessori School" ha yahi tha school ka naam. 

Jab hum bade hote hai aur apne mata pita se conversation ke time jb unki kisi baat se sehemat nahi hote. Hum unse behes krne lagte hai aur kabhi kabhi behes limit se zada badd jaati hai. Hum kuch hurt krne wali baate bol dete hai jase ki "kya aesa Kara hai apne hamare liye?" "school mei sab padate hai" "ab paida kiya hai apne then zimmedari apki he hai". Hume lagta hai uss wakt hum jo bol rahe hai wo ekdum sahi hai. Aasal mei hum apne apko itna sahi maan lete hai ki humara bola hua har ek shabd hame sahi lagta hai.

Ye 16..17..18 ki jo age hoti hai vo aasi age hoti hai jaha bacha sahi aur galat ke raste mei hota hai. Agar thoda sa bhi distraction mila then galat raste mei chala jaata hai bacha. Agar thoda sa bhi discipline tareke se rakha then vo aage kuch na kuch acha kr he leta hai aur apni nuclear family aur small family ko happy rakhta hai.

City Montessori School mei bhi wahi process follow hua KG class mei admission ke liye ek chota sa test hua. Result aaya ki mera admission ho chuka hai. Par dono school mei mane ek farak dekha. Bachpan mei Hume ye nhi pata hota 1000rs,2000rs kitne hote har par mane ek chez dekhi thi ki iss City Montessori School mei papa ne fees counter mei green note zada diye thei.

Bachpan Se Dur Hote Bache Aur Unka Bachpan. Kahani Maa, Baap Ki Hindi Mei. Mera Bachpan Ka Sangarsh. Life Lessons.

Aaj mei sochta hu aase English medium schools mei itni costly fees hoti thi. Hamari family kase cheeze manage krti thi, aaj mujhe ye ehsaas hota hai ki jb mei school time mei family se behes Kara karta tha, unko kuch bhi gusse mei keh diya krta tha, shayad mujhe vo sab nahi kehena chahiye tha, aur apni small family ko kush rakhna chaheyei tha. Shayad mujhe apne gusse pe control kr lena chahiye tha.

Aakhir hamari small family ke member jo bhi bole unka hakk hai humare pe aur duneya mei shayad he kisi ke maa baap apne bacho ka bura chahte honge. "Agar mujhe power mile jaha mei past mei Jaa kar kya galtiya sahi krna chahunga"- mei zaroor apne school time ke har aase moments ko sahi karna chahunga jaha mane apni aukaat se zada apne maa baap ko bol diya tha.🥺

Mei usse ab badal to nahi sakta par iss moment par mei family activities ko happy rakhne ki koshis zaroor kar sakta hu.❤️❤️

Bachpan mei loong mujhe tease kra krte thei shayad kuch zada he cute tha mei 😂ya fir sponge ki tara fluffy bag. Mera pehela dost new school mei Shubham bana. Reason nhi pata mujhe vo kyu mera best friend bana shayad vo bhi meri he tara tha❤️❤️ nature mei.

Calm - thought process mei zada rehene wala aur har ek cheez ke baare mei deeply sochne wala. Bachpan ki bohot se memories humne saath share Kari hai.❤️❤️ Wo ek ache dost se zada mera bhai jesa he tha. Agar mujhe problem hoti then usse samaj aa jaata tha. Agar mei problem face kr raha hu aur kisi ko nahi bata raha then vo samaj jata tha ki mei problem mei hu, ab aasi dosti agar kisi ki ho then lgta hai bhagwan sath hai. ❤️❤️

I was blessed to have him as a good friend.

Karte he karte humne 5th class clear kar liya tha. 6th class ke liye jase he mei school mei aaya mujhe pata chala ki bacho ke names shuffle hue hai.

4 sections bane hai 6th class mei - Section A,B,C,D. Saare bacho ko randomly alag alag section mei dala Gaya tha. Jaha mera section A aur mere dost ka Section D. Vo moment mere liye aesa tha ki jase sab kuch khatam sa ho gya.

Dosti khatam hoti dikh re thi mujhe, aesa lag ra tha jo humne memories banai vo sab ab khatam si dikh rahi thi, shayad ye hamari dosti ka end moment tha. Aaj ke generation mei vo dosti aur bachpana nahi raha, dek ke lgta hai ki bachpan se dur hote ja rahe hai bache.

Mei Shubham se milne gaya aur school ke system ko khoob bhala bura kaha. Ajeeb tara ke system se school walo ne bacho ko shuffle Kara tha. Zindagi bhi aasi he hai, sab kuch hamesha ke liye nahi milta.

Khushiya bhi hamesha nahi reheti. Shayad ye bhi ek phase hai life ka jo hame bohot kuch sekhata hai. Shayad ye chota sa phase hame inner will ko strong banane ke liye hota hai. Shayad school ka ye system Hume ye sekhata hai everything is temporarily so be prepared for every challenge chahe vo physical ho ya emotional.🥺❤️❤️

Wo mera pehela phase tha jaha kuch alag sa feel hua tha mujhe, aakhir ye bhi system ka part tha and humne accept Kara. New friend's bane. New journey suru hue. Aur dheere dheere hum maturity ki taraf bhi badd rahe thei. Jaha cheezo ki importance aur apna point of view rakhna bhi seekh rahe thei.

Shayad ye phase life mei zaroori hai kyuki hum inn choti choti cheezo se kaafi kuch sekhte hai. Apne apko emotionally strong banane se leke, khud ke liye stand lene takk ki cheeze seekhte hai. Hum jab apne seniors ko dekhte thei aur junior's ko unhe bhaiya , aur sir kehete hue sunte thei hame lgta tha hum kab bade honge. Hume kab hamare juniors bhaiya ya sir bolenge. 😂 Par jab hum uss stage mei aa jaate hai tb Hume pata lagta hai ki shayad junior wala phase he acha tha.❤️❤️

2nd Phase life mei tab aaya jab humne audience ko aur public ko face krna sekha. "Model class" kehete thei school mei jaha har student ko kisi na kisi chez mei participate krna hota tha.

Mane participate Kiya environmental cleanliness par speech. Meri life ka pehela speech jaha mei chahta tha ki sab kuch acha ho. Mei apna best du. Mujhe peheli baar pata chala apne words mei bolna aur word to word bolna kitna difficult hota hai.😂

Pura din lag gaya mujhe uss speech ko learn krne mei, kabhi starting mei word bhool ra tha to fir kabhi mid ka word bhool jara tha. Aakhir puri speech learn ho gei. Sabse best moment hota tha uss speech ko baar baar likhna aur fir jb kuch miss out hora ho then chupke se vo word dek ke ye sochna aray yar shet aata tha mujhe kase skip ho gya😂

Model class suru hua aur mere group mei 6 student's thei mera 5th number tha, mere papa vase kabhi nahi aa paae school ke function mei apne government job ke waje se aur busy schedule ke waje se but mummy hamesha aaya karti thi.

Mera pehela aur ek different experience tha mummy ke saamne speech dene ka, mujhe abhi bhi vo baat soch ke hasi aati hai, mummy ne 4th number ke student tk zoor zoor se clap kiya aur unko dek ke baaki sabne bhi clap Kara but jb meri baari aae hamari mata ji biscuit khane me busy ho gei and na unhone clap Kara aur na kisi aur ne😂😂mujhe gussa bhi aaya aur unko dek ke hasi bhi. Mtlb apne bache ke time madam biscuit khane me busy ho gei. 😂

Mere hisab se agar ap apni purani yaado ko aur choti choti cheezo ko yaad karke aakele baith kar hass sake then mei samaj ta hu aap ki parwarish achi hue hai. Ye mei apne apko rakh kar nahi ke raha blki iss liye ke raha hu kyuki aap aase insan ban gei hote hai jo duneya bhar ki bakwas show off bhari duneya mei na reh kar apne apko importance deta hai. Khali time mei apni baato ko aur apne apko time deta hai. Ye mera perspective hai, ho sakta hai aap sab mere se agree na kare ❤️❤️

Krte he krte school se college tak ka safar suru ho gaya aur humari life jase badal si gei. Kase hum school ke last year mei sochte hai jldi khatam ho school aur hum college jaae, shayad Hume idea nahi hota uss phase ke baare mei iss liye hum excited hote.

Jb hum uss phase mei aaate hai then waha se hamari life ek pure mature insaan mei badal chuki hote hai. Humara pura dhyaan sirf ispe hota hai ki life settle kase kare, career pe focus aur stability ke taraf dhyaan hota hai. Vo stage aasi hoti hai jaha aap grow hore hote hai aur apke maaa baap senior citizen ki taraf badd re hote hai. Mei jab Longo ko dekhta hu ki vo apne life mei settle hone ke baad aapne maa baap se ekdum separate ho jaate hai.

Kitna ajeeb hai ye sochna bhi, jiss maa baap ne ungli pakad ke chalne se leke college Tak ki fees bhari ho uss maa baap ke he waje se hum settle ho paate hai life mei aur settle hone ke baad hum kase separate hone ka soch bhi sakte hai. 

Mei thoda apni maa se naraaz tha kyuki

vo kuch bhi bol deti hai aur mujhe bura lag

jaata

hai. Aaj sube mere fever tha jab

unhone dekha ki mere bohot teez fever

hai. Maa ne bina kuch bole thandi patti kari aur

mera

fever kam kara. Ye sab choti choti

cheeze he hai jo mera sara gussa ek baar mei

khatam kar deti hai.❤️❤️

Apko kya lagta hai ye sahi hai aur kya waja ho sakti hai maa baap se rishte kharaab hone ki?, kya hum zada he mature ho jate hai?

Kya hum khud ko smart samaj ne lagte hai?

Kya ye nahi hoga ki jis tara humne apne maa baap ko separate Kara hai ussi tara hamare bache bhi kr sakte hai?

Aur abhi mei uss phase mei hu jaha mei apni life, apne career aur apne parewaar ko kase kush rakhu uske baare mei soch raha hu.

Mei dheere dheere steps le raha hu. Har taraf se jo ho sakta hai khud se he karne ki koshis kr raha hu. Chahe vo course ki fees ho ya aage studies ke liye fees. Sab kuch mujhe ab khud he karna hai. Kabhi kabhi sab kuch khud he karte time apko bohot se challenges face karne padte hai. Jab hum koi chez khud se karte hai then hame time bhi lgta hai. Hume kaafi baar jhoot bhi bolna padta hai. Hume ek burden bhi lgta hai life mei but last mei jb uska result milna suru hota hai then sab acha ho jaata hai ❤️❤️

Shayad apki zindagi bhi kuch aasi he Rahi hogi. Agar ap apne bachpan se leke Abhi talk ki life ko relate kar paa rahe hai then zaroor bataeyei comment mei. ❤️❤️

Written by Radhika Srivani